8 STEPS IF YOU WANT TO BE MORE SUCCESSFULL + HOW TO FOLLOW YOUR DREAMS?
Aqui vão as minhas dicas:
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Lately, I realized that I'm surrounded by successful people on social media and that's so good, because if it's to use them, at least that is to motivate ourselves to be better. But at the same time, I see how people struggle (and me without exception) to be successful / follow the dream careers or just accomplish some goal and end up living a boring life doing simply what they are told to do or to follow the easier path, regardless of my innocent 16 (almost 17 ahah) years old, I do not want to lose credibility in the things I'm going to say because, in addition to having learned them, I've also been reading a lot over the time and I'm already more settled about what it takes to be where or have what we want.
Here are my tips:
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Lately, I realized that I'm surrounded by successful people on social media and that's so good, because if it's to use them, at least that is to motivate ourselves to be better. But at the same time, I see how people struggle (and me without exception) to be successful / follow the dream careers or just accomplish some goal and end up living a boring life doing simply what they are told to do or to follow the easier path, regardless of my innocent 16 (almost 17 ahah) years old, I do not want to lose credibility in the things I'm going to say because, in addition to having learned them, I've also been reading a lot over the time and I'm already more settled about what it takes to be where or have what we want.
Here are my tips:
Tirem tempo para estarem convosco e conhecerem-se!!
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Take some time to find yoursef
Apontem 10 dos vossos maiores objetivos, sejam eles coisas mais físicas ou objetivos pessoais como "quero ser mais positiva" sejam completamente conscientes das coisas que querem, saber que querem alguma coisa não vos vai ajudar a conquistar nada, mas saberem exatamente o que querem irá ajudar muito!
Escrevam-nas, é uma maneira de as visualizarem etc...
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Sometimes we are so social people and with a lot of friends but when it comes to us, we don't know who we are, we don't know how we react to certain things or what we want for us.
Point out 10 of your highest goals, be they more physical things or personal goals like "I want to be more positive", be completely aware of the things you want, knowing that you want something won't lead you to anywhere, but knowing exactly what you want will help you a lot!
Write them down, it's a way of visualizing them etc ...
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Sometimes we are so social people and with a lot of friends but when it comes to us, we don't know who we are, we don't know how we react to certain things or what we want for us.
Point out 10 of your highest goals, be they more physical things or personal goals like "I want to be more positive", be completely aware of the things you want, knowing that you want something won't lead you to anywhere, but knowing exactly what you want will help you a lot!
Write them down, it's a way of visualizing them etc ...
Há coisas e pessoas que intencionalmente ou não, nos prendem de sermos quem realmente somos/queremos ser ou de atingir os nossos objetivos.
É dessas coisas/pessoas que nos devemos afastar para poder seguir o nosso caminho, ás vezes deixar ir essas coisas pode ser a tarefa mais difícil mas uma vez feita, torna o resto do caminho mais fácil, basicamente desapegarmos-nos das energias negativas.
Tira 2 minutos para pensar "o quê ou quem me prende ou dá receio de ser ou fazer o que quero?"
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There are things and people that intentionally or not, hold us back from being who we really are / want to be or to achieve our goals.
It is these things / people that we must step aside to be able to follow our path, sometimes letting go of these things can be the most difficult task but once made, it makes the rest of the way easier, basically detach ourselves from the negative energies.
Take 2 minutes to think "what or who holds me or gives me fear to be or do what I want?"
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There are things and people that intentionally or not, hold us back from being who we really are / want to be or to achieve our goals.
It is these things / people that we must step aside to be able to follow our path, sometimes letting go of these things can be the most difficult task but once made, it makes the rest of the way easier, basically detach ourselves from the negative energies.
Take 2 minutes to think "what or who holds me or gives me fear to be or do what I want?"
Sejam corajosos!!
Deixar os nossos hábitos rotineiros, sair da rotina, da zona de conforto e arriscarmos, fazer coisas que sabemos que queremos fazer mas não temos coragem para, este foi dos tópicos mais difíceis, porque sabia que queria muitas coisas mas realmente tomar a decisão de as fazer era o que me prendia, o receio e o medo.
Apontem 5 coisas que gostavam de fazer mas não têm coragem e depois pensem "experimentar fazer essas coisas só me pode levar a ter resultados diferentes, e com a insatisfação que estão agora só podem ficar melhores"
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Be brave !!
Leaving our routine habits, getting out of the rut, from the comfort zone and risking, doing things that we know we want to do but we do not have the courage to, this was the most difficult topics because I knew I wanted many things but really make the decision of the Doing was what held me, fear and fear
Point out 5 things that you like to do but don't have the courage and then think "trying these things can only lead to different results, and with the dissatisfaction that I'm right now, things can only get better"
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Be brave !!
Leaving our routine habits, getting out of the rut, from the comfort zone and risking, doing things that we know we want to do but we do not have the courage to, this was the most difficult topics because I knew I wanted many things but really make the decision of the Doing was what held me, fear and fear
Point out 5 things that you like to do but don't have the courage and then think "trying these things can only lead to different results, and with the dissatisfaction that I'm right now, things can only get better"
Mantenham-se perto de pessoas (e agora exclusivamente pessoas) que vos motivem e entendam a mudança que querem fazer.
Falo então de pessoas que vos apoiam e não pessoas que acham ridículo e desnecessário a vossa mudança, quando decidimos que queremos mudar ou fazer algo, vão haver sempre pessoas negativas para destruírem o que vocês estão a tentar construir, não que tenham que se afastar completamente delas, apenas não se deixem levar na conversa e mantenham-se fiéis aos vossos objectivos e no geral, perto de pessoas como vocês com sonhos e objetivos, á muito tempo atrás li num livro que "somos o resultado das 3 pessoas que mais perto estão de nós".
Falo então de pessoas que vos apoiam e não pessoas que acham ridículo e desnecessário a vossa mudança, quando decidimos que queremos mudar ou fazer algo, vão haver sempre pessoas negativas para destruírem o que vocês estão a tentar construir, não que tenham que se afastar completamente delas, apenas não se deixem levar na conversa e mantenham-se fiéis aos vossos objectivos e no geral, perto de pessoas como vocês com sonhos e objetivos, á muito tempo atrás li num livro que "somos o resultado das 3 pessoas que mais perto estão de nós".
Façam questão das vossas 3 pessoas, sejam pessoas motivadoras e que vos apoiem, se isso não acontece, façam uma decisão e tentem aproximar-se de pessoas com uma mente mais aberta.
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Keep close to people (and now exclusively people) who motivate you and understand the change you want to make.
I am talking about people who support you and not people who think your change is ridiculous and unnecessary, when we decide that we want to change or do something, there will always be negative people to destroy what you are trying to build, not that you have to move away completely, just don't go in their conversation and stay true to your goals and in general, close to people like you with dreams and goals, a long time ago I read a book that said "we are the result of the 3 people who are closest to us".
Be sure that people that are most around you are motivating and supportive people, if not, make a decision and try to get close and met new ones with an open mindset.
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Keep close to people (and now exclusively people) who motivate you and understand the change you want to make.
I am talking about people who support you and not people who think your change is ridiculous and unnecessary, when we decide that we want to change or do something, there will always be negative people to destroy what you are trying to build, not that you have to move away completely, just don't go in their conversation and stay true to your goals and in general, close to people like you with dreams and goals, a long time ago I read a book that said "we are the result of the 3 people who are closest to us".
Be sure that people that are most around you are motivating and supportive people, if not, make a decision and try to get close and met new ones with an open mindset.
Baby steps
Podem não conseguir alcançar o vosso objectivo amanha ou daqui a um ano ou o trabalho de sonho requer mais 1 ou 2 anos até poderem realmente conseguirem a estudar para ele ou a porem toda a vossa dedicação nele, mas comecem JÁ a trabalhar nisso e a ter consciência do que querem.
Sejam positivos e vejam SEMPRE o lado bom das coisas.
Ter este "mindset" só vos vai ajudar na aceitação das coisas menos boas que vos acontecem e no facto de que nunca tudo vai ser 100% bom e que por isso essas falhas e coisas menos boas servem para nos dar um abanão e continuar!
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Be positive and always see the good side of things.
Having this "mindset" will only help you in accepting the less good things that happen to you and in the fact that everything will never be 100% good and that therefore these failures and less good things are good to give us a shake and continue!
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Be positive and always see the good side of things.
Having this "mindset" will only help you in accepting the less good things that happen to you and in the fact that everything will never be 100% good and that therefore these failures and less good things are good to give us a shake and continue!
Coloquem esforço e dedicação nas coisas que querem.
Mas apesar de todas estas mudanças que são feitas mais á base da forma como pensamos e decidimos encarar as coisas na nossa cabeça, não há nada como dedicação, empenho, esforço e trabalho, independentemente do objetivo, vai requerer muito trabalho e esforço da vossa parte!
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Put effort and dedication into the things you want.
But despite all these changes that are more based on the way we think and decide to face things in our head, there is nothing like dedication, commitment, effort and work, whatever the goal, it will require a lot of work and effort on your part!
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Put effort and dedication into the things you want.
But despite all these changes that are more based on the way we think and decide to face things in our head, there is nothing like dedication, commitment, effort and work, whatever the goal, it will require a lot of work and effort on your part!
Vision board
Das coisas que logo de inicio fiz quando notei que queria certas coisas, ir a sítios, ter certas experiências e aventuras, um quadro motivacional, digamos.
Basicamente recortem, escrevam, recolham fotos de tudo o que gostariam de ter, fazer, comer, ir ou estar com.
O que mais aconselho (por experiência) é utilizarem fotos ou frases, imprimirem e colarem num sitio que vão ver imensas vezes, é uma forma de puderem ver e lembrarem das coisas que querem durante o dia. Se não querem ou não podem propriamente colar, de certeza que têm um telemóvel ou um computador, criem uma pasta e encham-nas de fotos e objetivos.
O que mais aconselho (por experiência) é utilizarem fotos ou frases, imprimirem e colarem num sitio que vão ver imensas vezes, é uma forma de puderem ver e lembrarem das coisas que querem durante o dia. Se não querem ou não podem propriamente colar, de certeza que têm um telemóvel ou um computador, criem uma pasta e encham-nas de fotos e objetivos.
Outra curiosidade que li um livro, um homem fez esta pequena brincadeira quando estava na faculdade e colocou uma foto de uma casa de sonho, ao longo do tempo que conquistou os seus objetivos mudou-se para uma casa e ao desempacotar viu no seu "quadro motivacional" que a casa para a qual se estava a mudar era exatamente a mesma.
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Vision Board
From the things I started when I first noticed that I wanted certain things, to go places, to have certain experiences and adventures, a vision board.
Basically cut, write, collect photos of everything you would like to have, do, eat, go or be with.
What I advise most (by experience) is to use photos or phrases, to print and paste in a place that you will see many times, is a way to see and remember the things you want during the day. If you don't want or can't properly put them in a certain place, I'm sure you have a phone or a computer, create a folder and fill them with photos and goals.
Another curiosity I read a book, a man made this little joke when he was in college and put a picture of a dream house, over time he conquered his goals moved to a home and unpacking he saw on his vision board that the house he was moving to was exactly the same.
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Vision Board
From the things I started when I first noticed that I wanted certain things, to go places, to have certain experiences and adventures, a vision board.
Basically cut, write, collect photos of everything you would like to have, do, eat, go or be with.
What I advise most (by experience) is to use photos or phrases, to print and paste in a place that you will see many times, is a way to see and remember the things you want during the day. If you don't want or can't properly put them in a certain place, I'm sure you have a phone or a computer, create a folder and fill them with photos and goals.
Another curiosity I read a book, a man made this little joke when he was in college and put a picture of a dream house, over time he conquered his goals moved to a home and unpacking he saw on his vision board that the house he was moving to was exactly the same.
De forma alguma estas não são coisas que estou pro a fazer/ser ou sei lidar a 100%, são apenas dicas que me ajudaram a tomar decisões que hoje em dia me fazem muito mais feliz do que eu achava ser ou que era o que merecia!!
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Not at all these aren't things that I am a pro to do or I know how to deal 100%, they are just tips that helped me make decisions that nowadays make me much happier than I thought I was or that I thought I would deserve!!
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Not at all these aren't things that I am a pro to do or I know how to deal 100%, they are just tips that helped me make decisions that nowadays make me much happier than I thought I was or that I thought I would deserve!!
-XoXo, Dani
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